Daygame since August 2017 was HELL. I was getting nothing but a steady stream of rejections and blowouts. I had a period where I did like 50 sets with no number closes… I was close to giving up. It was literally one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced in my life.
I remember telling myself, during the peak of my dark days during August, that if I could get back to hooking sets and getting dates again, that I would have overcome the biggest challenge I’ve faced in life so far.
I took a good break from Daygame after August. Just focused on other things. Work, Buddhism, some gym. I only seriously started approaching again in mid-November.
This time, I tried to take the pressure off myself, and focused on just trying to get my vibe in the first 30 seconds of the interaction – no results, no expectations, just pure practice.
It went great… got a few hooks and number closes in the first few sessions. Few flakes. Went on a coffee date with a rotter. My attitude was just meh, whatever.
My vibe was great. I was out with a friend from work who is a daygame voyeur. Great for my vibe since it kept me out of my head and having fun. We were just going with the flow, chilling.
I spotted her walking down Pitt St…. I think I saw a flash in her eyes that matched my cheeky energy. Was that an IOI? Who cares, I’m going in. I turned around and stalked her from behind, checking her figure out from head to toe. Her curly Asian hair stood out to me, and her face looked Japanese. Good, I had an opener and a stack. I turned on my sexual eyes and jumped in front of her
She rooted to the spot and smiled instantly. I was pretty much eye fucking her during the opener and stack, focusing on infusing as much sexual energy as I could put into the interaction.
We vibed for a little while, I think I also spoke about Japanese girls being cute or something. I can’t remember, but the man to woman frame was there.
I snapped out of it when I remembered to ground the set. Fuck! Nervousness started kicking in and I realised we’re in the middle of fucking Pitt St with people in glass restaurants all around me! I knew they were watching….
Whatever. I focused back on her, asked her why she moved to Sydney, and told her a bit about myself. I was trying to bring the energy lower and show her I can also be a normal person lol.
The set grew a bit stale, so I took her number and moved on with my day.
Was a good day with my wing. Number closed two other cuties, both of which replied a few times then flaked.
Texting was weird. She was clearly engaging in the text banter, but she kept dodging my date requests. This happened 3 times.
I gave up after the third time. I wasn’t gonna text her after that.
Then, out of nowhere, I got a “Heyy!” from her. Ding ding! Hope was still alive.
Then what happened was what I can only describe as a booty call. She fucking booty called me at 11pm.
I drove to the city, picked her up in my car, and drove her back to my place. She was touchy feely from the moment we met. It was ON, and all I had to do is not fuck this up.
I was trying to build some comfort and escalate smoothly during the drive home… but it wasn’t necessary. I could be chatting about cats and dogs and she would still sleep with me. She had made up her mind on the street a week ago.
We got home and into my bangpad. Gave her some water and a bit of space to settle down. There was some LMR, I went for the kiss a few times but got rejected… whatever, I did a fake push. I told her I’m going to sleep, turned lights off and pretended to sleep. My bluff worked and we started cuddling.
The cuddling led to fucking. She had a wet, welcoming vagina that I pummelled like a World War I battlefield.
- Hope is a good character trait. Persevere through those dark times, and you will come out a stronger person.
- Divide and conquer – break daygame down into little modules and practice each one. For example, that day I was focusing on the “sexual energy” module.
- Sexual energy is very important in Daygame. Especially in the first 90 seconds.
- Sometimes girls just want a booty call and a good fuck